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tulipsandroses

(8,252 posts)
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 09:27 PM Mar 14

I am not obligated to forgive regretful trump voters. So there's this video floating the internets

A regretful trump supporter posted a video crying that she is still getting hateful comments despite apologizing. She says she has been making videos to warn other trump supporters, but it still feels that it will never be enough for some people. There are response videos sympathizing with her, warning that we should be welcoming people like her. Others have said they can't forgive her. I fall in the latter camp. Her crying about not being forgiven pretty much ticked me off.
Her biggest problem is people on the internet making comments that hurt her feelings. Meanwhile, people are dead, families are being ripped apart. People are terrified to leave their homes. Countless people have died after USAID was ripped away. Over 300,000 black women lost their jobs due to Doge cuts. The ripple effects of that will be felt for years to come.
So sorry, if I can't empathize with this lady crying about mean comments.
I am glad she's apologized and making videos to warn people. Doesn't mean I have to forgive her. A victim does not have to forgive their abuser, even when the abuser is truly sorry.

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I am not obligated to forgive regretful trump voters. So there's this video floating the internets (Original Post) tulipsandroses Mar 14 OP
Add the latest news that Doge "kids'" compromised our social security numbers vapor2 Mar 14 #1
To choose to forgive or not, that's a personal moral choice that I won't judge. markodochartaigh Mar 14 #2
Some acts are beyond forgiveness PJMcK Mar 14 #3
Because Kamala had a funny laugh! Thunderbeast Mar 14 #25
Hopeless batch of idiots CountAllVotes Mar 14 #26
Awwww her feelings are hurt durablend Mar 14 #4
What brought about the change of heart? Demobrat Mar 14 #5
Most of these people saying they were wrong are only going so far to say that they RockRaven Mar 14 #6
Old movie, I think it was John Wayne, Genghis Khan. Norrrm Mar 14 #7
John Wayne played Temujin/Genghis Khan in The Conqueror (1956) RockRaven Mar 14 #9
I lived in kanab utah in the late 50s Lifeafter70 Mar 15 #38
I was talking a guy today that was a big Trump doc03 Mar 14 #8
Likewise. taxi Mar 14 #14
We'll see more of that. yardwork Mar 14 #16
If forgiveness is what is desired... Morbius Mar 14 #10
She should yeet herself into the nearest volcano durablend Mar 14 #11
According to the most recent notice from the USGS. . . Collimator Mar 14 #13
You voted for Trump because you thought the sh*t would happen to other people. Intractable Mar 14 #12
Exactly this. EarthFirst Mar 14 #20
If you hate all Trump voters... biocube Mar 14 #15
Precious. n/t flvegan Mar 14 #18
Not about hate BunnyMcGee Mar 14 #27
What an absolutely adorable, insightful, non-judgemental piece. niyad Mar 15 #35
piece of what? ;) BWdem4life Mar 15 #39
Well, one could say piece as in "say your piece", or simply fill in niyad Mar 15 #40
Define 'better' Ruby the Liberal Mar 15 #44
The internet: BEFORE and AFTER usonian Mar 14 #17
Let me be clear.... We don't need videos of Republican voters Lamenting..... Bread and Circuses Mar 14 #19
And she's only coming around to realizing it now? calimary Mar 14 #21
Let's take a look at her social media posts. BidenRocks Mar 14 #22
What is she... skypilot Mar 14 #23
She should be crying for all of the people who died or will die GoCubsGo Mar 14 #24
She's only sad because people do not like her any more Scalded Nun Mar 14 #28
My question is..... BeneteauBum Mar 15 #29
Absolute forgiveness is on a different path than most of us. Prairie_Seagull Mar 15 #30
Trump is bad for healthcare bmichaelh Mar 15 #31
Sending healing vibes. Joinfortmill Mar 15 #34
It was about her Keepthesoulalive Mar 15 #32
She seems to be unbelievably self centered. Joinfortmill Mar 15 #33
... Dave Bowman Mar 15 #36
I haven't talked to my tRumpster brother since the russian agent orange's first term yaesu Mar 15 #37
I have yet to meet a regretful Trump voter in person. Further... Orrex Mar 15 #41
As the First Escort's jacket says, "I really don't care, do you?" Vinca Mar 15 #42
No you aren't EdmondDantes_ Mar 15 #43
Yes. vanlassie Mar 15 #45
Very true EdmondDantes_ Mar 15 #46
Indeed. I considered, then declined several times over two years vanlassie Mar 15 #47
if you've seen the light, good for you, but you can still go FUCK YOURSELF Skittles Mar 15 #48

vapor2

(4,539 posts)
1. Add the latest news that Doge "kids'" compromised our social security numbers
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 09:32 PM
Mar 14

and who know the damage of this. (our personal data stolen)

markodochartaigh

(5,545 posts)
2. To choose to forgive or not, that's a personal moral choice that I won't judge.
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 09:32 PM
Mar 14

But to forget... Well, anyone who forgets what Trump and 95% of the Republican party has done, and is doing, is a damned fool. And no, damned fools do not deserve to be fooled again, no one deserves that. But damned fools make damned poor allies.

PJMcK

(25,052 posts)
3. Some acts are beyond forgiveness
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 09:34 PM
Mar 14

I’m not saintly and do not have to be merciful.

Fuck these fools. They are responsible for this disaster and destruction of a great country. We knew Trump was trash so why didn’t they?

Fuck these fools.

CountAllVotes

(22,216 posts)
26. Hopeless batch of idiots
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:51 PM
Mar 14

How can anyone have such poor judgment?

We do not need nor want people like this involved in our lives!

Demented Donnie is going down but what a way to go!

He is the epitome of sheer evil!



RockRaven

(19,425 posts)
6. Most of these people saying they were wrong are only going so far to say that they
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 09:37 PM
Mar 14

were wrong about him as an individual, not about their values or goals which they used as their original justification for supporting him.

IOW, they are saying "oh, I was lied to!" not "oh, my priorities are fucked up and I am cruel, ignorant, and selfish"

As far as I am concerned, such people are pretending to be victims while issuing notpologies. Screw that.

Norrrm

(5,100 posts)
7. Old movie, I think it was John Wayne, Genghis Khan.
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 09:51 PM
Mar 14

(Even though the guy is now on your side) never trust a traitor.

RockRaven

(19,425 posts)
9. John Wayne played Temujin/Genghis Khan in The Conqueror (1956)
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 10:33 PM
Mar 14

I can't confirm the quote source as I haven't seen it myself.

But that film is notorious for two reasons, one being Wayne's yellow face and cringey dialogue, and the other being the supposed exposure of cast and crew to fallout from nuclear tests upwind of the desert film sets.

Lifeafter70

(990 posts)
38. I lived in kanab utah in the late 50s
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 12:40 AM
Mar 15

I remember seeing the ash thinking it was snow. I was 5 at the time. My sister and a cousin passed from leukemia in 1960.
I have two sons with rare diseases. One acc cancer and the other dermatmyositis. I have always wondered if there was a connection to my being exposed to fallout from those test.

doc03

(39,091 posts)
8. I was talking a guy today that was a big Trump
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 10:18 PM
Mar 14

supporter last election. Trump's war was mentioned and he said he didn't vote for Trump. I know damn well that was a lie. He said Trump was nuts. I just let on that I had no idea, apparently he thinks I don't remember.

taxi

(2,716 posts)
14. Likewise.
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 10:59 PM
Mar 14

This past week a customer volunteered that he voted for the clutz the first time but not this time, and added that he could never vote for a woman or a Democrat.
I said nothing. Nothing.

Morbius

(997 posts)
10. If forgiveness is what is desired...
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 10:40 PM
Mar 14

...it's gonna take more than tears. Try doing something. Actions > apologies.

Collimator

(2,123 posts)
13. According to the most recent notice from the USGS. . .
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 10:59 PM
Mar 14

. . . Kilauea in Hawaii is slated for another eruption episode sometime between March 28 and April 6.

For those seeking to throw themselves and/or others into an active volcano, modern seismological measurement technology has made it a great time to be alive. Such a time saver!

Intractable

(2,126 posts)
12. You voted for Trump because you thought the sh*t would happen to other people.
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 10:54 PM
Mar 14

FAFO

You have to have hate in your heart to like Trump.

EarthFirst

(4,160 posts)
20. Exactly this.
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:19 PM
Mar 14

The tearful regret is wholly remorse over circumstances that personally affect self-preservation.

I hear no evidence from many of these revelations that their moral or ethical convictions that are deeply rooted in racist, xenophobic conviction have been altered.

Nothing that indicates their compass directionally exhibits empathy towards the lives of others; merely their own plight.

Trump voters were moved only by an agenda that cast hate against those who they thought were lesser beings.

Their regret is meaningless in my opinion until they’ve demonstrated they are willing to advocate for the collective good of all; not only who they feel deserving.

biocube

(221 posts)
15. If you hate all Trump voters...
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:03 PM
Mar 14

I *promise* you I can find a Trump voter that's a better person than you.

I will blame voters when Dems give their best efforts and still lose. The entire 2024 election cycle was a shit-show. Blaming voters is what LOSERS do.

BunnyMcGee

(483 posts)
27. Not about hate
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:55 PM
Mar 14

It's about not forgiving some people when they had so much info on 47 before electing him President and causing so much harm and losses.

niyad

(132,563 posts)
40. Well, one could say piece as in "say your piece", or simply fill in
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 06:36 AM
Mar 15

the blank as one sees fit.

Ruby the Liberal

(26,665 posts)
44. Define 'better'
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 11:46 AM
Mar 15

They may be a better mechanic or neurosurgeon, but without morals and ethics - they're nothing.

Bread and Circuses

(2,078 posts)
19. Let me be clear.... We don't need videos of Republican voters Lamenting.....
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:14 PM
Mar 14

What they won’t do is ….

1 Change parties …become an Ind or Dem!
2 Donate to the Democrats, campaign for democrats
3 Tell their Republican friends and family , why they must wake up
4 Apologize to people of color, Immigrants, women, LGBT, and disabled persons
5 NEVER vote Republican again
We’ve seen this before, Republican voters will complain and may flip.

But they always go back for the Republican hate and lies

calimary

(90,100 posts)
21. And she's only coming around to realizing it now?
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:22 PM
Mar 14

I’d like to hear her (and others like her) explain why it’s taken so long.

What was it that finally woke her up?
When it started to affect her personally?
When she finally started noticing she was losing friends?

It would be most educational to know.

BidenRocks

(3,281 posts)
22. Let's take a look at her social media posts.
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:25 PM
Mar 14

Nothing bad in her history, right?
Right?
She drank the Kool Ade!

If she wants forgiveness she can go to confession!

GoCubsGo

(34,929 posts)
24. She should be crying for all of the people who died or will die
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:42 PM
Mar 14

because of her vote, those of every person who voted for that motherfucker, or stayed home. We have a fucking war, people are being murdered in our streets by his thugs, they're dying in concentration camps, or because he made health insurance too expensive, or because their rural hospitals are being shut down due to budget cuts. And, don't get me started on the millions who will die because USAID was gutted, and because he gutted environmental regulations? She wants us to forgive her. Nope. Go to hell, lady.

Scalded Nun

(1,696 posts)
28. She's only sad because people do not like her any more
Sat Mar 14, 2026, 11:55 PM
Mar 14

I'm guessing she's probably not liked by most people anyway.

If she wasn't getting shit for this she'd be rubbing Trump in our faces every chance she could.

If they cannot live with what they have done to this country, then there are quick, easy remedies.

Dead or alive...they can all fuck off forever.

BeneteauBum

(523 posts)
29. My question is.....
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 12:01 AM
Mar 15

Will the ‘regretful’ MAGAt actually learn something and attempt to make more informed decisions in the future? Some might but most are too entrenched to see their folly and will continue to wallow in their absurd right wing rhetoric.

Peace ☮️

Prairie_Seagull

(4,701 posts)
30. Absolute forgiveness is on a different path than most of us.
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 12:02 AM
Mar 15

We have to get by with doing the best we can.

bmichaelh

(1,190 posts)
31. Trump is bad for healthcare
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 12:07 AM
Mar 15

Many of them live in a different reality.

I explained to MAGA family members before the election that Trump almost killed me in his first term.
In 2017, he tried to repeal ACA but failed.
I told them my lymphoma returned in 2019; it was first diagnosed in 1990.
A cardinal rule with my lymphoma, is that each time it returns it is always in a different place and is more resistant to prior therapies.
This time, it was near my spinal column.
I went through four different therapies over 2 year, they all failed.
ACA saved my life because it made the fifth therapy, which worked possible due to its ban on lifetime limits.
There was a strong possibility that I would have experienced paralysis if I did not find a successful treatment.

Many of his followers discounted COVID; they should not have.
Trump is ill equipped to handle another pandemic.
Many act like nothing like it will happen again.

Keepthesoulalive

(2,307 posts)
32. It was about her
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 12:09 AM
Mar 15

She didn’t give a damn about those babies in cages or women dying because they couldn’t get medical care, and she didn’t care about them trying to overthrow our government. She only cared about herself and her social group. Show us positive action towards others not your self serving bull hockey.

yaesu

(9,336 posts)
37. I haven't talked to my tRumpster brother since the russian agent orange's first term
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 12:39 AM
Mar 15

no interaction at all, I will never forgive those idiots.

Orrex

(67,124 posts)
41. I have yet to meet a regretful Trump voter in person. Further...
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 08:28 AM
Mar 15

I have yet to see one online who has pledged never again to vote Republican.

What they regret is being justifiably mocked for their fuckheaded vote and, to a lesser degree, the hardship Trump's presidency has inflicted on them.

Fuck them.

EdmondDantes_

(1,809 posts)
43. No you aren't
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 08:36 AM
Mar 15

But anger at other people who aren't effected by your anger really only just tears you up. You forgive because it's healthier for you.

vanlassie

(6,248 posts)
45. Yes.
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 01:42 PM
Mar 15

And forgiving does not mean you have to speak to them at all. You have to acknowledge the ways you have reacted to, been affected by, held them in distain, allowed their behavior to affect you negatively, and so on. This will show you the cost you have incurred by your own choices. If that cost is too high for you, you can choose to let it/them go.
I make it sound easy in some ways, and in some ways it is. You do it when you decide to.

EdmondDantes_

(1,809 posts)
46. Very true
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 01:56 PM
Mar 15

It's so difficult to let go of anger. Took me way longer to do so than I like, but we're all on our own journey with that as you said.

vanlassie

(6,248 posts)
47. Indeed. I considered, then declined several times over two years
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 05:02 PM
Mar 15

to let go of my anger and resentment and blame for my ex before I was ready to see the full cost of holding on to it. It was the price my children were paying that helped me get there. When you “GET” the full cost vs the always small benefit of getting to be (more right, getting sympathy, being virtuous) you see it’s a no brainer. You see when you see. If you are willing.

Skittles

(171,791 posts)
48. if you've seen the light, good for you, but you can still go FUCK YOURSELF
Sun Mar 15, 2026, 05:04 PM
Mar 15

THAT is how I will ALWAYS feel about the fucking cult.

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