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What is your most hated chore? (Original Post) milestogo 13 hrs ago OP
Making the bed CanonRay 13 hrs ago #1
My parents made me make up my bed everyday when I was 5 years old kimbutgar 10 hrs ago #26
I too make my bed every day LogDog75 10 hrs ago #32
Some years ago, we were in Germany, visiting my husband's son from his first marriage. 3catwoman3 1 hr ago #47
All of them. I hate housework and it shows. Ocelot II 13 hrs ago #2
GMTA. I, too, really dislike cleaning house, particularly vacuuming and dusting. 3catwoman3 2 hrs ago #43
LOL! I like those. I have cats, too. They are gray and their fur shows on both dark and light surfaces. Ocelot II 2 hrs ago #44
We have one black and brown tabby, one tuxedo... 3catwoman3 1 hr ago #48
Excellent! Ocelot II 1 hr ago #49
Vacuuming. House of Roberts 13 hrs ago #3
Paperwork. Girard442 12 hrs ago #4
Even worse was back in the days True Dough 12 hrs ago #13
Back during the era of Windows NT milestogo 12 hrs ago #17
I know that feeling as well True Dough 12 hrs ago #18
I re-imaged a machine that belonged to an engineer. milestogo 11 hrs ago #21
Wow! True Dough 11 hrs ago #22
I can remember my supervisor saying "that's great, but I'm not paying for it." milestogo 11 hrs ago #23
I know that feeling as well True Dough 12 hrs ago #19
Peeling garlic cloves, de-seeding lemons. Drum 12 hrs ago #5
Cleaning the grill... Mark.b2 12 hrs ago #6
Cleaning the cat's litter box Sanity Claws 12 hrs ago #7
Clipping my toenails! 😬 Floyd R. Turbo 12 hrs ago #8
This is why True Dough 12 hrs ago #14
That's Floyd R. Turbo 11 hrs ago #20
House cleaning, period. Diamond_Dog 12 hrs ago #9
Decluttering Grim Chieftain 12 hrs ago #10
Folding laundry -- all that time wasted messing around with something that's already clean! Ponietz 12 hrs ago #11
Ironing was worse. milestogo 12 hrs ago #12
It's not the folding I hate, it's putting the folded clothes away. Polly Hennessey 9 hrs ago #37
I have semi-joked many a time that if I were raising our sons again, I wouldn't bother... 3catwoman3 1 hr ago #46
Dusting. Aristus 12 hrs ago #15
Beat me to it! Mme. Defarge 10 hrs ago #29
Mrs. Aristus and I are summoning the courage... Aristus 7 hrs ago #41
Cleaning the bathroom... 2naSalit 12 hrs ago #16
Unloading/loading the dishwasher. I'm in a retirement community so I don't have the awful housework I used to have. CTyankee 10 hrs ago #24
Ha! Mme. Defarge 10 hrs ago #30
Weeding bif 10 hrs ago #25
Dusting or changing the sheets happybird 10 hrs ago #27
Washing dishes. I don't have a dishwasher Phoenix61 10 hrs ago #28
I don't use a dishwasher either Skittles 10 hrs ago #33
There's so many, its hard to just pick one..... Bayard 10 hrs ago #31
Cleaning the outside of a toilet LogDog75 10 hrs ago #34
Washing walls Endlessmike56 9 hrs ago #35
Oh, gawd, I used to have to help my mother wash walls when I was a kid. 3catwoman3 2 hrs ago #45
I don't want to cook schnitzel, ever again. Zackzzzz 9 hrs ago #36
yard work of any kind mike_c 8 hrs ago #38
Changing the sheets CozyMystery 8 hrs ago #39
Any type of house work, I was slave labor as young as age 8, until I married and moved out at 20. cksmithy 7 hrs ago #40
Visiting Facebook Beringia 5 hrs ago #42

kimbutgar

(27,723 posts)
26. My parents made me make up my bed everyday when I was 5 years old
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 01:55 PM
10 hrs ago

It’s a OCD thing with me. I can’t leave my home without making my bed.

That said I hate washing dishes but do it because I can’t leave dirty dishes in the sink!

LogDog75

(1,471 posts)
32. I too make my bed every day
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 02:05 PM
10 hrs ago

I started doing it as an adult about 30 years ago because I was tired of coming home and seeing the bed covers a mess. Once I started, after a couple of months I notice I was more focused at work. I concluded that by disciplining myself in making the bed every morning I was actually starting a routine which carried over to work.

3catwoman3

(30,206 posts)
47. Some years ago, we were in Germany, visiting my husband's son from his first marriage.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 10:32 PM
1 hr ago

The little hotel we stayed in folded the quilts/duvets down toward the foot of the bed to allow the sheets to air out.

I've done that ever since. I like pretty sheets, so this way I get to see them. The bed still looks tidy, and it's a lot quicker than fussing with a blanket and bedspread. I usually don't bother with a top sheet, and when I do, I never tuck it in. I like my feet to be free.

My mom was a nurse, as was her mother, as am I. I can still make hospital corners with the best of them, (been doing it since about age 8) but there's no reason to.

Ocelot II

(131,826 posts)
2. All of them. I hate housework and it shows.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 11:16 AM
13 hrs ago

Scrubbing floors is probably the most tedious.

3catwoman3

(30,206 posts)
43. GMTA. I, too, really dislike cleaning house, particularly vacuuming and dusting.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 10:12 PM
2 hrs ago

I used to have a sign hanging from a closet doorknob that said -

You may touch the dust,
But please don't write in it.

There are have been times when you could, like now. And with 4 cats, 2 hours later you can't tell that you dusted, so why bother?

I just a few days ago saw another sign that said - You know that thing about, "Dust thou art, and to dust thou shalt return."? That's why I don't clean. It might be somebody I know.

Ocelot II

(131,826 posts)
44. LOL! I like those. I have cats, too. They are gray and their fur shows on both dark and light surfaces.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 10:21 PM
2 hrs ago

Cat fur also creates substantial dust bunnies.

3catwoman3

(30,206 posts)
48. We have one black and brown tabby, one tuxedo...
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 10:37 PM
1 hr ago

...and 2 Siamese mix siblings - a very dark seal point, and a pale blue point. We need either a calico or orange kitty to make sure all the colors are covered.

House of Roberts

(6,726 posts)
3. Vacuuming.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 11:19 AM
13 hrs ago

I have four cats and none of them are fond of the vacuum cleaner. I'd rather leave the dirt there than terrorize my buddies.

Girard442

(6,954 posts)
4. Paperwork.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 11:26 AM
12 hrs ago

I hste that moment when you open up a document wondering if there's a "gotcha" there.

True Dough

(27,671 posts)
13. Even worse was back in the days
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 12:10 PM
12 hrs ago

when it was easy to lose a bunch of unsaved work. I had a serious sense of dread if I had typed up a few pages and then something happened to the document and all the content was lost. Starting over again was THE WORST!

milestogo

(23,343 posts)
17. Back during the era of Windows NT
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 12:16 PM
12 hrs ago

I was working for a high level executive. He was writing a speech on his computer. He disiabled the autosave because IT TOOK TOO MUCH TIME. Well at the end of the day he closed the document without saving it.

Next day, he couldn't find it. He expected me to perform some kind of magic. But it wasn't there because he had never saved it in the first place.

True Dough

(27,671 posts)
18. I know that feeling as well
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 12:20 PM
12 hrs ago

After losing documents, I would sometimes spend the better part of an hour trying to figure out if it had auto-saved somewhere. I was just hoping against hope that it could be recovered and spare me having to redo my work. Never was fruitful, but I tried!

milestogo

(23,343 posts)
21. I re-imaged a machine that belonged to an engineer.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 01:02 PM
11 hrs ago

I had told him to back up his work. I told him I was going to re-image his computer, but he didn't understand what re-imaging was. He always saved to the hard drive because he said it "took to long" to save to the network. We're talking about a few seconds.

So he had no work to show for the last six weeks. He was designing an engine and it was gone. Pretty soon the department head was in my face telling me that they were on a deadline and we had to get it back. "Cmon, we all watch CSI. We know there are ways."

So I started searching and I found a company that could do recovery at the "sector" level, as long as it hadn't been written over. Amazingly we were able to do this over the internet. The diagram was 98% recovered. It wasn't cheap, but the engineering department paid.

Not a technical failure- a communication failure. Engineers are damn smart but they don't necessarily understand IT lingo.

True Dough

(27,671 posts)
22. Wow!
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 01:04 PM
11 hrs ago

That was never going to be a recovery option for me, but fascinating to know it's out there!

milestogo

(23,343 posts)
23. I can remember my supervisor saying "that's great, but I'm not paying for it."
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 01:18 PM
11 hrs ago

A couple of weeks later one of his programmers slipped on the ice and dropped her laptop... the hard drive fell out. So she brought it to me. I had to mail it to the company. The cost was $2K but everything was recovered. My supervisor paid for it.

This is why backups are so important.

True Dough

(27,671 posts)
19. I know that feeling as well
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 12:20 PM
12 hrs ago

After losing documents, I would sometimes spend the better part of an hour trying to figure out if it had auto-saved somewhere. I was just hoping against hope that it could be recovered and spare me having to redo my work. Never was fruitful, but I tried!

Mark.b2

(845 posts)
6. Cleaning the grill...
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 11:35 AM
12 hrs ago

We use ours lots in the summer, and I can’t stand for it to be nasty. Yet, I hate cleaning. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone and bought new grates rather than clean the old ones!

We have a local company that cleans grill. I’m seriously thinking it’s worth the $100!

Sanity Claws

(22,461 posts)
7. Cleaning the cat's litter box
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 11:36 AM
12 hrs ago

He sprays a bit when he pees so I also have to change the weewee pads that I have around and behind the litter box. Ugh!

Diamond_Dog

(41,521 posts)
9. House cleaning, period.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 11:45 AM
12 hrs ago

Maybe it wouldn’t be so bad if it would STAY clean but I live with 3 men and a dog……

I remember an old Phyllis Diller line comparing keeping a house clean to shoveling your walk before it stops snowing. So true.

Grim Chieftain

(2,320 posts)
10. Decluttering
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 11:46 AM
12 hrs ago

We have a big twelve room Victorian/Queen Anne and every room is filled with items inherited from my grandma and my mom. Of course, each item has sentimental value, so it's not only a chore, but an emotional task as well. It's made worse by the fact that we have no kids and no one to pass it down to.

Ponietz

(4,617 posts)
11. Folding laundry -- all that time wasted messing around with something that's already clean!
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 12:04 PM
12 hrs ago

milestogo

(23,343 posts)
12. Ironing was worse.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 12:10 PM
12 hrs ago

I still have two irons and an ironing board. I don't know why because I NEVER buy anything that needs ironing.

Polly Hennessey

(9,056 posts)
37. It's not the folding I hate, it's putting the folded clothes away.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 03:14 PM
9 hrs ago

I have a pile of neatly folded clothes in the laundry room. Now if I could just get the energy to put them away. 🧺

3catwoman3

(30,206 posts)
46. I have semi-joked many a time that if I were raising our sons again, I wouldn't bother...
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 10:25 PM
1 hr ago

...with dressers. Get 2 giant laundry baskets. One for clean, one for dirty. When the dirty clothes one is full, wash them and switch the baskets. They seldom put anything in the drawers anyway, so why spend a lot of money on a dresser?

Aristus

(72,752 posts)
15. Dusting.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 12:12 PM
12 hrs ago

Unfortunately, it’s also Mrs. Aristus’s most hated chore. So between the two of us, our house looks like Disney’s Haunted Mansion most of the time.

Mme. Defarge

(9,128 posts)
29. Beat me to it!
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 01:58 PM
10 hrs ago

And today is the day. At leastI have a good audiobook to listen to to lesson the pain.

2naSalit

(104,862 posts)
16. Cleaning the bathroom...
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 12:16 PM
12 hrs ago

I used to have to do it for our large family, I hated it then, hate it now even though I live alone. I do it but I hate it, even with gloves on.

CTyankee

(68,597 posts)
24. Unloading/loading the dishwasher. I'm in a retirement community so I don't have the awful housework I used to have.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 01:25 PM
10 hrs ago

But standing too long in one place is really hard on my arthritic spine...

Phoenix61

(18,921 posts)
28. Washing dishes. I don't have a dishwasher
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 01:56 PM
10 hrs ago

and wouldn't use one if I did as it's just me. Fifteen years of waitressing and I despise touching dirty dishes.

Bayard

(30,684 posts)
31. There's so many, its hard to just pick one.....
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 02:01 PM
10 hrs ago

I used to be a fanatical house cleaner. No more, no more. I get to it when I get to it. Most horse people I've ever known have much cleaner barns than their houses.

LogDog75

(1,471 posts)
34. Cleaning the outside of a toilet
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 02:13 PM
10 hrs ago

This inside is not problem, squirt some toilet bowl cleaner in the bowl, run a toilet brush to around the inside and under the lip and done. It's not getting down on my hands and knees to spray a cleaner on the outside of the toilet and wipe it dry but getting back up.

3catwoman3

(30,206 posts)
45. Oh, gawd, I used to have to help my mother wash walls when I was a kid.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 10:21 PM
2 hrs ago

Haven't done it since moving out in 1976, and never plan to do it ever again.

Did you know that you should was from the bottom up rather than the top down? The way my mom explained this "rule" was that if you started from the top, the dirty water from the first pass of washing up high would trickle down the walls and leave streaks that wouldn't wash away.

Zackzzzz

(420 posts)
36. I don't want to cook schnitzel, ever again.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 03:05 PM
9 hrs ago

Delicious but, oil spatter on the glass cook top,
Oil on the counter around the cook top, Oil on the
can that holds the utensils, Oil on the back wall
of the cook top. Oil in the pan. Washing the big,
heavy pan, putting the pan away, Cleaning the sink.
I'm exhausted.

cksmithy

(536 posts)
40. Any type of house work, I was slave labor as young as age 8, until I married and moved out at 20.
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 04:33 PM
7 hrs ago

I love working in the garden, pruning, planting, edging the small amount grass in back yard, hand watering, adjusting the water features for the birds that stop by. I do the cooking, clean the pots and stove top, husband does the dishes (load the dishwasher and a few hand wash item) and vacuuming. I do the laundry and folding. He does the mowing, I do the trimming, pruning, he picks it up. I have arthritis and other autoimmune issues, it works out great. We are in our mid 70's. He has clean laundry and I have a freshly mowed lawn. Life is good.

Dusting, polishing, vacuuming, ; these are the things I hate to do.

Beringia

(5,707 posts)
42. Visiting Facebook
Sat Jun 27, 2026, 07:00 PM
5 hrs ago

I do it once a week, but never enjoy it. Just want to see any family pics or visit one person I like who posts about the Palestinians and what is happening to them

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